Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Moving Forward with the Franklin Park Coalition Boston Marathon Team



The events of April 15, 2013 touched each of our team members in various ways. Our speed demon, Owen, had crossed the finish line in the literal footsteps of the elites, close to 90 minutes before the bombs went off. Others had just barely made it over the famed finish line, basking in the glory of their personal win, only to turn around and see two explosions. Many were stopped at various points along the route with no clue why or what happened. Our team captain conversed with others around Washington Square about the police flying through the marathon route in their cars with no regard to the runners with the assumption that they were trying to get out of detail work…how those thoughts, feelings, and emotions changed in a heartbeat.

April 15 took something away from all of us. As a collective team, we ran hard all winter long—through brutal wind chills and while dodging snow plows. Our noses ran faster than we did. We wanted to stop at DQ in Ashland for ice cream, even though our training runs had just begun a quarter mile up the road. We made friends with the crew from the Playworks team and were taken in by the amazing staff from the Heartbreak Hill Running Company in Newton for one heck of a training run. We laughed, we cried, we shared stories.

Michelle attacked Julie while she was having her picture taken at the start—both were bundled up in hoodies, hats, and gloves—though those that ran in 2012 were not complaining about the extra layers. The skies were blue and sunny, a moment of silence for the victims of Newtown gave us a moment of clarity about the preciousness of life and how lucky we all were, and we prepared for our 26.2 mile journey as a team--with love in our hearts and smiles on our faces.

The love and smiles arguably lasted for much of our runs. The amazing staff and volunteer support at Mile 14 by the Franklin Park Coalition left not a want for any of us. M&M’s? Check. Advil? Check? PB&J? Check. Tequila? Maybe next year…

We all also had family and friends on the course and those family and friends looked out for our green and white singlets—our team—our running family. Cheers were yelled, beers were passed out, gels were anxiously tossed out by the Wicked Running Club to ensure our crew made it up Heartbreak Hill and beyond.

Beyond we all moved and continued to move. We were all in different places when the news broke—and all encouraged to just move forward. Some of us were stopped at Mile 23 and 24 where the police gave us gentle directions to Commonwealth Avenue to find our way back to Boston. Some of us were just a mile or half-mile out—just beyond the “right on, left on” that feels so good. Some of those runners moved forward beyond the bombing sites and into the Pru or into their hotels with loved ones. Hugs never felt so good.

The Franklin Park Coalition was unbelievable in checking in with our team and our families after the marathon. A true picture of calm, cool, and collected they worked through the emergency list, made sure all were ok, and updated not only our families, but our donors and FPC supporters. When a few of our runners had a friend whose husband and son were seriously hurt at the second bombing site, it was the executive director who offered to come back into the city with warm, dry clothes for her as well as hot meals. While the day of chaos continued for those runners and their friend, the FPC showed why running a marathon for a great cause is one of the greatest small-scale philanthropic decisions one can make.

Our Oregonian connection made it safely home and had a greeting of over 100 people to wish them well and show their gratitude for making it home. Craig and his friend ran in a remembrance run for Boston in their hometown area and helped moved forward with their own healing process. (http://www.kgw.com/news/local/Thousands-cross-Willamette-for-Boston-Remembrance-Run-203630051.html)

Many of us hugged our families a little tighter that night or the next day. Some of us took a walk in Franklin Park—thankful that a place like this exists in Boston and that a man named Frederick Law Olmsted wanted to create peaceful places to allow the public to escape urban strife—though I doubt April 15’s event were what he had in mind. Some of us wrote back and forth to our teammates and found comfort in the shared actions and emotions of others. We weren’t crazy for bursting into tears, feeling unusually angry, or for feeling shaken up like never before. We weren’t wrong for feeling like we were robbed of the day we worked so hard for. It was comforting to have the team we did. As Elizabeth put it, it helped to take in all of the good and the bad together.

Another runner received this letter of support from a friend: I am so relieved to see that you are both OK. I agree completely with your friends who say that today's horrible tragedy doesn't in any way diminish your incredible accomplishment. All the months of training in disgusting weather, and your stamina and determination in the race today, and Charlie's support and encouragement throughout, are so worth celebrating. I hope you can find ways to do this, even as you mourn those who died or were injured. What you have done is so very special.

All want to find a way to move forward and run again next year and we all anxiously await how the Boston Athletic Association will be handling the 1000 official charity runners that did not finish. We know what a special chance it is to be able to do what we did and how special it is to have family, friends, colleagues, and companies that support these crazy dreams of ours.

The Franklin Park Coalition keeps moving forward, too. After they got the marathon stuff put away (and all the Swedish fish eaten)  they had a busy couple of weeks finding ways to spend the $50,000+ that we raised--hiring teenagers, finalizing the Playhouse in the Park concert line-up, re-potting small trees that will be planted, and starting outreach for the annual Kite & Bike Festival.

As a team, we move forward and continue to support each other and the Franklin Park Coalition and look forward to finding ways to give back in the coming years.




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